A few days ago, my girlfriend told me it was a long time since the the last time I wrote something. Hmm, it’s sad but true. Suddenly I realized how busy I was. And then I also found out that she loves to read my stuff as much as I want to read hers. Hmm….

These days, I saw 2 friends of mine broke up with their boyfriends. Really, seeing friends’ breaking up always makes me think about myself. I don’t know all of their stories but base on what I know, there is a pretty interesting fact: when I was younger, I thought the most common reason of breaking up is one of two people loves someone else. It may be true when we were teenagers because we changed almost everyday but now? Not anymore! We grown up. Our characteristics are defined. The most scary things now become our own thoughts. As long as (almost) everything goes along well, nothing happens. And then, at some points, when there is a tiny little problem where the two people can not agree with each other, it will become bigger, bigger and finally, explode: BOOOOM! 

Can’t we do anything?

Yes, we can. Communication! Currently, I’m reading a book called “Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus”. I will definitely write something after finish reading that book but now, all I can say is there is always a way to do things. What matter is whether we want to do it or not. See? That’s our thoughts that make a relationship work or not. 

I personally think mine will work, absolutely beautifully. No doubt!